July 25th - The Man from Snowy River
What a great day today was! Our friend, John, brought us a canadian bacon and pineapple pizza again. Seth and I met him down in the Kindred lunchroom and just sat and had lunch like normal people talking about life, the economy, politics, normal things. It seems like such a small thing but it is really huge. Since the patients at Kindred are usually so sick, they stay in their rooms all the time so this facility is set up to always have the patient have their meals eaten in their room and basically stay in their rooms 24/7. But Seth says it gets kind of lonely sitting there especially when you're staring down hospital food! Not that we're complaining but hospital fare sure doesn't beat a canadian bacon and pineapple pizza straight out of the oven and eaten with a friend, to boot!
Another big win for today is that I slept by myself for the first time last night since the accident. I've had some pretty bad nightmares over the past month where I was really glad Mom was with me. Last night, Judy (Seth's mom) was on call to come over immediately if I had a nightmare and Erinn from Durango also had her phone by her bed in case I needed to talk at any time during the night. So I was in good hands. I slept through the night with no nightmares. This may seem like a small thing but a big win for me in healing, I suppose.
Seth also was introduced to the Kindred Therapy room which we have never seen before. Seth says it has all these bars and PT machines that look really cool. Our Occupational Therapist, Ron, played WII with Seth. Seth wants to go back to this room now everyday as he would really like to use some of the machines. They said since most of the machines in that room require weight bearing status, that's why Seth hasn't gone there.
After lunch, we did the Routine. Seth really appreciates the shower part of the Routine. And he deserved it, he worked hard.
We ended the day watching one of our favorite movies, "The Man from Snowy River". I would rate this as one of the top love stories of all time. Its about a poor man (Jim Craig) from the mountains who has this awesome horse. He falls in love with a girl (Jessica Harrison) whose rich father is a horse and cattle rancher on the plains of Australia. If you haven't seen it, I'd highly recommend it. The scene where Jim rides his horse down this very steep mountainside is breathtaking! Anyway, Seth and I danced to Jessica's Theme from this movie at our wedding 15 1/2 years ago. We had practiced and practiced and practiced the dance before our wedding. We had even practiced it in my wedding gown as I had to pick up my train in my right hand in order that Seth could spin me to the left as one part of our routine. However, during the actual ceremony where we did the dance, I was reaching down to pick up my train with my right hand, as we had practiced, and Seth whispers urgently to me, "No, Jode, wrong hand.". Here we are in front of 75 people and I didn't want to argue the point and I thought, "Well maybe he's right and I'm wrong." So I picked up my train in my left hand and when the twirl came, I went straight into my train and could barely find my way out! Luckily the pianist saw the dilemma and kept the song going for a few more moments as we untangled ourselves and continued on!
This is the only picture I have of Seth with a horse and the camel doesn't quite fit. But there you have it, "The Man from Durango, CO"! And that's Jody not Jessica!
Reader Comments (2)
Oh gulp. I remember watching TMFSR with the two of you and my horribly sarcastic sister and brother-in-law, at one of our places in California. We kept poking fun at the movie during all the gushy romantic spots just to get your dander up. And it got up pretty high, if I recall. Now I feel so guilty.
Anyway, hope to watch it with you again soon and this time I won't make disgusting smacky lip noises every time they gaze into each other's eyes, so full of aussie snowy-mountain love.
Love you both, and so glad to hear the great news about the move to Craig. The whole fam-damnly will be in town for the Dem nat'l convention and I plan to crash your little Craig party on Thursday or Friday with the imp in tow. She loves to ride horsey on casts so you'd better work on that in your therapy, Seth!
Hi Jody and Seth,
You don't know me. I'm Mark's sister, Valerie. Mark has been telling me about Seth's ordeal, and his progress. He shared your blog with me at the beginning, right after the accident. I think Mark and Pate were just about as shaken up as you were, Jody. Mark just had to talk through his horrible experience too. But your ordeal has had to march right along, up to today. My heart goes out to you both. I am so very thrilled to read about your progress, and to hear how well Seth is doing now. You are both very lucky, and blessed. What a gift you have been given, that of Seth's ability to fight and heal. One day you will look back on this, and realize this experience has made your lives together richer and more complete. It may not seem so now, but I believe God/Buddah works in mysterious ways! Congratulations to you both for making it this far. Your journey is long, but you have both done so very well in making it this far.
Valerie Hebert